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Weird Blessings

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Did you know that blessings come in all shapes and forms and ways?  -Yep Did you know that you have a choice whether or not to accept something as a "blessing" or not? -Yep Did you know that grief is not one size fits all, but the process is needed and necessary? - Yep So, here's a weird thing.  It's been a little over a month since my sister died and I have the feeling that I should be over it by now, passed it,  processed through it already, for Pete's sake.  I would never ask that of someone else, but because of all the strangeness of our lives with Covid19, I seem to be asking that of myself.  For heaven's sake, she's so much happier and freer and painfree and free to laugh without oxygen now......get over the grief.   But, on the other hand...grief is evidence of loss, of love, of life.   My weird blessings... Getting to fly with no one sitting next to me on all the flights it took to get me to Cincinnati and back to Medfo